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How will I recognize a good woman?


Raised by a mother, who lived in an abusive relationship with my step-father, I learned at a tender age to hate male abuse of women. As a result I became overly considerate of women as I grew into adulthood. Considerate to the point where I could barely take the initiative sexually, as I was afraid I might offend the girl. In addition I’m a genuinely kind soul, and hate raised voices. Like most Swedes I’m conflict shy to boot.


Going through my adolescence during the first bloom of Feminism I was extremely ill equipped to deal with the new aggressive woman that emerged at the time. As might be expected I was easy prey for these go getters and suffered a lot of verbal and even some physical abuse from such assertive women.


Seeking a Filipina who is as non-abusive as I am, I wonder; how will I recognize such a woman? Are there any specifics I should peel my eyes at, when reading the profiles. Almost all of them mention being “sweet” so I don’t trust that. Any hints from Filipinas or Westerners with good experiences would be appreciated.

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sweetpurple

  • Posted on 08/13/2010 09:56 am
How will I recognize a good woman?

Must have patience in knowing the woman deeper, in one chat or one mail, you can't see if the woman is good or bad, you have to invest time and effort to know the uniqueness of each individual.

brownbeauty

  • Posted on 07/29/2010 08:14 am
Yeah ! Lazy. =p haha. Well, don't shake the tree, the "apples" might get dizzy and they would landed not so fresh. =))

Anyway, keep on searching ! It may seems like finding a needle on a haystack, but in the end, it will all be worth it I know. =)

goranbockman

  • Posted on 07/29/2010 01:09 am
Hi Cheese,

Thanks for taking a minute to reflect on the problem here. I guess your right it's guess and jump for all of us. :)

Take care and good luck and happy searching to you as well.

goranbockman

  • Posted on 07/29/2010 01:06 am
Hi BB, (Know your name is Joyce, but BB is more you)

Thanks 4 the advice, but why complicate things so much? Can't I just shake the tree so the top apples fall in my lap? (I admit I am a bit lazy :D) Yes we all want a good woman/ man, but hopefully good doesn't mean the same to all of us, otherwise all us guys would be fighting over you lol (just lap it up :D) You wouldn't happen to know someone extremely kind, who would be a good match with me?

Take care / Goran

cheese1211

  • Posted on 07/28/2010 12:26 pm
here in online dating world, at start we cannot determine such a good woman, unless continuous communication and we need to consider some factors: when you meet her personally, family background, spend time to each other. However, if its only in net, we are not truly recognize a good one. If you are really serious to know the person's very well, you need to take the risk! Goodluck and happy searching!

brownbeauty

  • Posted on 07/28/2010 08:46 am
Good woman ! Hmm. There are plenty of them I believe, BUT BUT yeah, it's true, kinda hard to find !! I remembered this article that I was reading, it said that good women are like those finest apples in the trees. Most of the time, guys just chose to pick those apples who already landed on the ground cause they are scared to get hurt. So those apples on the top think that there's something wrong on them. But what they just need is to find that brave man to climb all the way to the top to just get that finest apples. Haha. Something like that ! I forgot the whole script. =)) Well Mister, you're not alone. I think finding a good woman in virtual world is as thrice as hard as finding one in the real world. Let's face it, we can be anything inside the internet, so it's almost impossible to determine right away who's good from who's not. My advise ?? Haha. I don't have any. I still pout on those things. But TIME is still the best way to determine who's being real from who's just faking it. Well, goodluck ! I think all of us just wanted that one kind of person, good woman/man. =)