![]() I've been a member of this site for some time now. And like most of you here, I came here to fulfill that one elusive dream, and that is to find that one special person. :) Why on a dating site? Why choose the virtual world? My answer is, why not? I think, it's our individual choices on where we think we could find that one VERY special person who can be with us till our twilight years. Yep! It's your choice. Well, anyway, if u happen to hang-out for a long time now on this site, you probably know by know how a Filipina mind works? What?? Not yet?? Oh cmon... Hahahaha.. Okay, I'm sure it won't hurt if I will give u a little hint of what were REALLY looking for. So, jot down these things cus I won't repeat this again, or else, the entire Filipina society will take it against me, kidding!!! Alright, most Filipina, including myself, came here with one COMMON goal, and that is to find that one special person. Simple right? Maybe.. But not all the time.. :) Some men thinks that MOST of us here are that easy to get into a relationship with them. Hell no!! We don't need one fancy pick up lines. Personally, the easiest way to see your message for me in a delete basket is to act as if your God's gift to women. True true!! But one sincere convo, and your in to my favorite list. Please never underestimate our instinct guys. We know if your just faking it. ;) Me thinks, the easiest way to capture a Filipina's eyes is to be her friend. :) Yep!! Those men who appears so strong, are too scary for us. I've met a lot of them that told me right away that they love me. Hello!!! You don't even know my real name, then u love me!! Wahahahaha! Kinda funny, but it's soooo true. We came here to find love, and so please, give us a break if your just here for another thing. And if you think, were just a friend, and u can't see us being in a relationship with u, be blunt! I think it's a lot better than to lead us with a lot of false hopes. Honesty will always be the best policy when hanging out with a Filipina lady like me. What if u establish a connection with her? And, everyday, u can't last a day w/o seeing her smile, or her email to you, or her IM. Bingo dude! You're I-N-L-O-V-E. What a feeling!! And you also have a feeling that she wants u too? Of course, next step is, COURT HER! Oh... have I told u how Filipina love to be courted? We love those giddy encounters. Those "you're beautiful" lines. And a lot lot more. Give her a poem, dedicate a song for her, write a mush mush letter, compliment how she looks pretty on that dress she's wearing while the 2 of you are talking in cam, pay attention on what she's saying, be funny, be naughty but don't over do it, cus she might think your becoming disrespectful. Know her culture. Ask about her family. Respect those people that are dear to her. In short, let her feel that you're interested in everything about her. Nothing interest a Filipina who sees how interested you are to penetrate in her life, and in her world. One more thing, be consistent and persistent. SURE, we understand that you couldn't sit in front of your pc 24/7, BUT, even if u can't talk to her almost everday, find ways to let her know that there's never a moment that your not thinking about her. And also, be ready to visit her in our country when everything become serious. This is, me thinks, one of the best way, to seal the deal. She said YES. Wow!!! Congratulation dude! You got now one of the most exotic and amazing woman in the world. (I'm not being biased really!). Hahahah. Then, comes the time when u feel like you want her in your life. And you can't see your future w/o her. And every waking and sleeping days of your life won't be the same again w/o her. Tooot tooot tooot! Did I hear some bells ringing? You're probably wanting to get your relationship into the next level, which is, (drum rolling), MARRIAGE!!!!! Woohoo!! Congratulation!! But wait, before we party, you might want to know first her expectations on your marriage. Sure, you love each other, and you're both ready to start a new life together, but how will it work? Will she be working also? Or will she stay at home? Where she prefer to live? Those are the questions that most of the time, we overlook. So, before the bell rings, tackle first those questions for a much smooth sailing next chapter. Be sure you can provide her and your future family all the basic needs. We Filipina doesn't really want the glam life once were married. I think, most of us, wants a simple and happy family. Also, some of the women still wants their career, as much as some of us just want to stay home and be a full time mom or wife. Marriage will always be one of our greatest dreams. Walking down the aisle with our white gown, oh, who doesn't want that? But, like I said, before anything else, tackle those things before finally sealing the deal. Oooopppsss! I think, this is getting long. Wahahaha! I got more info to tell u but of course, it won't be fun anymore if I will give u all the info u need. Salute to all the people who are behind this site! Much respect! brownbeauty ![]() BrownBeauty's Profile Link: http://www.filipina-lady.net/brownbeauty Editors Note: if the above link is broken, please contact the admin by using the Contact us link at the bottom of every page. Subscribe to Asian Dating Members |
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Hey Big bro, not even close to your article. :) Thanks Evan!
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