Asian Definitve Love

Many times, an online dating associate wants a very detailed and definitive answer to their questions about their relationship. It typically can’t be done. For instance they may give a few fine points and then ask if that person loves them. At best, an online dating webmaster can offer his opinion but he should do so with care. If there is one definitive rule about love it is “there are no definitive rules.” Everyone’s state of affairs, personality and experiences are different. What could be considered an act of love for one, might not for another.

When two people are interacting, their situation and experiences are exclusive to their interplay. When you meet somebody, you are dealing with a sole personality that may or may not link up with yours. A lot of American men think that foreign women all have the same characteristics and persona. Why is this? For example many accept as true that all Filipina Ladies are docile and gentle. Trust me; they do not all fit this mold. There may be a few identifiable traits that seem to fit one culture more so than another, but to think that every person from a specific country have the same characteristics is a mistake. A personality develops from many variables and for an online dating webmaster to distinguish before hand what exactly makes two personalities click, particularly when it comes to love, is ridiculous. Think about it. Their background and emotional experience is part of what makes them who they are, now put in to the mix another person with dissimilar experiences and you have a blueprint that may or may not work. Usually time is the only way to be certain if two people have enough spark to explore each other’s personalities to see if they are a match.

When I met my wife, she had a lot of suitors. A lot of them flowered her with gifts. To some this may denote love. To my wife, it felt as if they were trying to buy her affection. When I met her, we spent hours chatting and getting to know each other. In our conversations she once told me how she appreciated different tea flavors. One day, I sent her a small gift of unusual tea flavors in a wooden box. It wasn’t the gift that mattered; it was the fact I was listening that touched her heart. So when someone asks me what is important to a Filipina Lady, I usually tell them that listening is important to finding love, but obviously that was my experience and may not be the key ingredient for all relationships.

The best an online dating webmaster can do is talk about their experiences without any guarantees. There is no way of knowing exactly what makes another person fall in love or why they may reject one person over another. This is especially true when we are talking about cultures that are foreign to yours. In the Western world, men may think looks or material things weigh heavy in their courtship success, while romancing a lady from the East, it may be simple words of compassion that wins her heart. There may not be anything incorrect with trying to find a focal point in your search for romance as long as you keep in mind there is an individual beneath any label in your search for love. Keep an open mind and find the uniqueness that exists in all of us, no matter where they are from.

When meeting someone online, it is still sensible advice to get to know them over time and not jump into an instantaneous romance. Let time be your ally and don’t let cultural stereotypes be your only guide to finding romance – look into their heart and learn who they are, not what you want them to be. There is no mathematical method for romance. It begins with two people and usually on the road of discovering each other determines where it goes. If all goes well, the best romantic math is – 1 + 1 = one love, one heart, beating as one. How they found this unbelievable feeling they may not even understand. They probably don’t even care. All they know is what they feel – love

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labreyjane

Posted on 07/17/2010 11:24 pm

♥☻ .. tnx dan 4 accepting me in your website .. hope i can find my prince here in date asia .. take care

lucia

Posted on 02/18/2010 04:25 pm

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