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Asian Discrimination

Asian Discrimination


 Any guy who has dated Asian ladies who dwell in the United States, has witness the fury, jealously and bias of American women towards Asian ladies. I know I have, as have many of my friends. The conventional has some value: American women can’t contend against the Asians’ sexuality, American women feel intimidate and some American women plainly think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some legitimacy.

My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian ladies and have heard the comments. If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their nature. The crowd in these clubs are usually Asian ladies and American men.

There are many Asian ladies in the U.S., particularly from the Philippines. A lot of these ladies arrived via meeting an American G.I. I actually don’t know the percentage, but there is no doubt that most Filipina ladies have a military relationship in some way. They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the United States with their military spouse. As a result, you’ll meet Asian ladies in clubs who are married. If you socialize with Asian ladies that patronize the clubs for any length of time, you will sooner or later meet ladies who are adulterous. This infidelity is how Filipina ladies are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry the same disgrace for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is always apparent when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.

What the American GI has exposed is now catching on with non-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these sites try to make use of the Asians’ sexuality. However, there are many Asian ladies who want to encounter a sincere gentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as Asian ladies may be, American men are also fascinated by the Asians’ behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in the Asian culture. You’ll hear American men call these standards “traditional values” because at one time these were the standards that held the American family together.

The worn-out dispute about these women being a servant to their husband, is one sided. Do these women like helping their husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. They are not forced to do so, but have the yearning to please their man out of gratitude and love. These ladies are doing what they want to do. I reiterate, they WANT to please their man, do things for him and show their appreciation. In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no aspiration to look somewhere else for this appreciation. It’s chemistry that previously prevailed many years ago in the United States and has been vanished in the myriad of women rights in American society.

Why do Filipina women would like to marry a foreigner from an alternative country? I’m not going to dispute the reality that these ladies want a better life. It’s probably authentic. I will dispute that most women, no matter the country, would like to marry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of who you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the United States, ought to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Above and beyond wanting a improved life, on the whole Asian ladies want better treatment. In a Filipina lady’s eyes, men from the West behave toward women better then men from their country. Is there truthfulness to this? The feed back I get from the ladies at my website is yes or at least they remark it to be so. I’m sure the social status of your family makes a difference of how you are treated regardless of your gender, but I’m talking about the average Filipina lady. The difference is simple. In her country what she does for her man or husband is expected without appreciation. Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn’t required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian lady does, his appreciation is certain. For an Asian lady, the man doesn’t have to be super rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. It’s a merry-go-round with respect and love as it’s focal point. She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.

All the above words, statements and my observations have their exceptions. There is no doubt, there are bad men in every country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for the money or to get a free pass to the United States. These are the exceptions and it is this minority that the media and others will use to blanket a whole culture in a negative light. I’m sure most of you have seen in print or on the news about “mail order bride” scandals or “mail order bride” maltreatment as if this defines all courtships and marriages that mature through the internet. If a a small number of instances defines the standards, then just getting a marriage license in the United States should have a word of warning imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and maltreatment. The last culture of experts that needs to be giving advise about how to meet up and marry a women is the United States – is there any other country whose divorce grade is higher?

I started this piece of writing to comment on why a lot of American women scorn Asian women. Not all American women, but a lot. But the inequity doesn’t stop there. It is evident in the media, politics and definitely in their own country. The people who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If two people who found each other are blissful, in love and want to be together, why does the media and politician assume they know better. More then likely, it isn’t about what the couple yearn for, but more about politics and sensationalism to sell news. Take your disgust, your restricted minded views and negative publicity in another place and let us find love – even if we get it on the internet.

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SilverQuarters

  • Posted on 07/24/2011 04:10 pm
Typically when I'm walking along the Strip at night on my way to work, there are a lot of western women that dress sexy, with very few Asian women; but I have seen some, but very, very few. When I get handouts for "entertainers," I will look at them and notice that 19 out of 20 of them are western women, there's only been 1 or 2 Asian "entertainer" pictures I've seen on the handouts.

The point I'm making with that statement is I never would have thought that Filipina women were considered as common whores...but then again, I'm not an American woman, either.

As for the thing about women pleasing men. If I hypothetically got married to some woman out there, regardless if she was western or Asian, I would treat her the same. I will be honest with you though, If my wife did that "please me" type of stuff regardless how you define it, I would feel obligated to pay her back. Not with money, but, with surprises, cleaning the house, and so on.

Just my 2 cents.
Chris.

goranbockman

  • Posted on 07/16/2010 07:39 pm
Swedish boys are taught not to hit a girl, but girls are never taught not to hit boys. Many men are physically abused by women, feeling they don't have the option to strike back. 9 times out of 10, custody of children is awarded the woman.
100s of men are in prison on false accusation of rape so many men prefer to stay single. Others can't have sex with women, as mothers taught them that men sexually abuse females, so are ashamed of their masculinity.

goranbockman

  • Posted on 07/16/2010 07:09 pm
Thanks for telling it like it is! The American scene is equally applicable to Europe. Men here are punchbags to feminist mobsters, and Asian women, and those seeking them, are favorite targets of these high handed gender hybrids.

They took the worst male and female traits to create a monster and called it modern woman. In the 70ies I supported feminism movement thinking gender equality was their goal. We know better now don't we? I still hold the sexes as equal though.

dan Online now!

  • Posted on 07/16/2009 10:22 am
Find the one you love and stick by them no matter what.