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Dating Mom and Pop

Dating Mom and Pop


 A mom and pop online dating site is generally a small site operated by a husband and wife team who met due to a dating site. Usually the birth of a mom and pop dating site is created with the passion of wanting to reveal their experience on the net. Their resources are limited so you are not going to see TV commercials for their site or massive marketing campaigns to attract new members. In most cases, they rely on word of mouth or being found by a person using a search engine looking for love.

So what can a mom and pop dating site offer more than a corporate site? Personal experience! Most corporate sites are operated by business people who didn't discover or even look for for love on a dating site. To them, corporate online dating is nothing more than a corporation selling features rather than personal experience. Also, their membership can be quite steep to cover their publicity costs. Don't get me wrong, there are many fine corporate online dating sites, but if you want to communicate with someone who walked the walk, more than likely it won't be from a staff associate of a corporate dating site.

If you are looking to find love with someone in a different country, I think a mom and pop online dating site of a husband and wife team from different countries, can provide the kind of personal experience that is tough to duplicate with advertising dollars. I own a free Asian dating site and married a exquisite Filipina lady who shares her know-how with other members who are searching for a lady from the Philippines. Being able to talk to a lady who understands the ethnicity and has some insight to the trial and tribulations of marrying another member from a different country, helps reduce some of the apprehension a member may feel about marrying a foreign lady.

I get lots of emails with questions from lady members of the Philippines that only my wife can answer. If they are asking for a male's perspective, I can offer my knowledge and opinion. I never make any guarantees since every individual has their own characteristics that make them who they are, but if they are searching for some general feedback about my experience of discovering love, the effort to get a fiancé visa, the time line to get your loved one to your country, etc, I do my best to share my experience. It is a relief for most members to speak with someone who previously did what was needed to marry the one they love from a different country.

Most guys ask me if being wedded to a Filipina lady is as wonderful as they have heard or read. In my case the response is a resounding YES. But to stereotype all Filipina ladies as wife material is not only wrong, but not accurate. It takes two. In my case, our chemistry was the right mix to make our marriage work and flourish. If I did portray a whole culture, such as the Philippines, as being the homeland of beautiful women and traditional wives, there may some fact to the stereotype, but to declare that is the case for every lady who lived in the Philippines is ignoring the effort and feelings involved to make a relationship work for a lifetime.

If you are looking for the personal touch in a dating site, don't over look a mom and pop dating site. Finding them may be the tough part, but if you keep digging you will be amazed how many mom and pop sites exist for you to join. In some cases, like our sites, membership is 100% free.

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  • Posted on 07/16/2009 10:45 am
If you are interested in running your own dating site, drop me a line and I can point you in the right direction.