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Hello/Goodbye Dating

Hello/Goodbye Dating


Many come to an Asian dating site to discover love and if they are determined, they generally do. Being a webmaster of one of the top Asian dating sites, I find it somewhat difficult when a member joins, leaves, joins again, leaves again and keeps this cycle up month after month regardless of my warnings. Usually before I ban them, I email them telling them to please join once and don't leave your membership until you are completely sure you have finished your search for love. They usually don't listen and keep up the cycle in spite of my warnings. Once banned, they question why.

If you join an Asian dating site and want to take a break you can do that without quitting the site and rejoining again when you are prepared to get back into the game of love. I recognize that if a member had a tough breakup, they may not be in the frame of mind to correspond with other members for a little while. Instead of quitting your membership and signing up again, why not take a time out from the site until you have the nerve to try again.

I try my best to accommodate my members, but when you are dealing with hundreds of emails and accounts, nearly all webmasters are in a fast forward mode when updating and maintaining their site. They just don't have time to linger on any one question for too long. Thus, it is sometimes easier to delete or ban an account than to deal with an account that gives you constant problems, especially after more than a few warnings. Usually I tell the member beforehand what the problem is and to please stop, but many simply take no notice of the request and leave me no option but to take action.

Sending the webmaster a quick email when having problems is something I advise to all members of a dating site. Most webmasters want 24 to 48 hours to respond if they have a busy site. If you did not get a answer within 48 hours, you should transmit another email. In any given day a active site can get 100 to 200 emails and at times a genuine email gets deleted by the spam folder. That is why webmasters ask that you use the Contact form on their site. Typically the Contact form on the site is coded to preclude it from being marked as spam. In my case, I still get members sending me emails by replying to an automatic email (i.e. email activation) that is not monitored by the webmaster. If you want a response from the webmaster, suggest using the Contact form on the site.

When you do find that special individual on a site, there isn't a webmaster I don't know who doesn't welcome getting an email letting them know love was found on their site. My sites are completely free so I especially appreciate it when a member tells me they discovered love on one of my dating sites. Without this positive feedback, I would of given up managing a free Asian dating site long ago.

Finding love ought to be one of the most significant things you do in life. Being sincere in your efforts and not giving up is not simply a formula for discovering love, but for living your life to its fullest.


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brownbeauty

  • Posted on 03/07/2010 04:22 am
If u give up that soon, ur closing d chance to meet d one that is for u. So, if ever u feel like erasing ur account, take a little time to pause, breath, and reconsider ur decision. Who knows? Tommorow might be another day.

brownbeauty

  • Posted on 03/07/2010 04:18 am
Though I understand her somewhat, I just thought she will do better. Oh well.. How about the friends that u made along ur journey? Aren't they reas0n enough to stick around? The hundred of post u made? Oh well..

brownbeauty

  • Posted on 03/07/2010 04:13 am
But, I remembered, there was this girl from this site. She was d m0st famous here me thinks. I was a fan. Until something went wrong, and d last thing I know she erased her account here which made me sad and felt a lil dismay.

brownbeauty

  • Posted on 03/07/2010 04:10 am
I admit Dan, I did considered erasing my account here. Simply because I got always pissed on inconsistent, sometimes perv (sorry) men and also those who thinks their a lot deserving over d others, if u know what I mean.

dan

  • Posted on 07/16/2009 04:31 pm
If you have any concerns or questions, email the webmaster.