 There are male scammers as well, but their patterns are not as well recognized. Probably the most well-known male scammer is what other online dating webmasters call the "nanny scammer". He tells lady members he wishes a nanny for his kids, guarantees a great salary, a place to live, but before he can offer you the employment you need to exchange money for processing ------------- ( fill in the blank). Just like a lady scammer, a male scammer will play on your emotions. If a male member is promising you a visa, a eminent job or even marriage but you have to supply money so he can make this agreement happen, report him as a potential scammer. For my part, I don't believe anyone ought to fall for a scam if they exercise common sense. A scammer's promises are generally quite blatant and seem to be too good to be true. For example, if a male member is promising you a visa to the USA for $100 not only is that impractical, probably, unachievable. You should directly convey such behavior to the online dating webmaster. For the most part scammers are impetuous. Within a few emails, they are trying to get you to do something linked to the scam. They are searching to see if you may bite on what they have to offer. Slow down! When you initially meet someone, it ought to be about getting to understand each other. Just like dating in the non-internet world, initial contact is a learning process to see if there is adequate chemistry for a relationship to grow. If a member's initial purpose seems anything other than wanting to get to understand who you are, ditch them. No matter if they are a male or lady scammer, when someone signs up for a dating site, they do not inform the wembaster that they are joining the site to scam other members. Scammers fill out their application as if they are seriously looking for love or a penpal just like any other legitimate member. Consequently, a webmaster does not realize what a new member's real intentions may be. The only way a webmaster finds out that someone is a scammer, is when a member reports them. This is the situation for a small mom and pop site or a larger site like MySpace or Facebook. They rely on members reporting a scam when members are scamming. There is no sure fire way to stop all scammers, but common sense and time is still your best defense. Don't rush and don't commit to a relationship too early. You probably would not inform someone on a first or second date your life story, why should it be any different when meeting someone on the internet. When I met my spouse on the internet we exchanged emails, chatted, etc, for 8 months before making a commitment. Only after we understood the relationship was heading for marriage did we chat about expenses. In other words, we were beyond the "getting to know each other" stage of the relationship and was preparing for a life together. Those who make premature commitments during the "getting to know each other" period should slow down. After all, discovering love is not like buying a burger at a fast food joint. When you are searching for love, you are searching for a lifetime commitment. Take your time and make certain that person is the one you desire to share your life with for a lifetime. Subscribe to Asian Dating Articles |
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