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Asian Email Rejection

Asian Email Rejection


 At an Online Dating site, email rejection happens all the time. It is equivalent to being rejected by someone you meet in a club. You walk up, say hi, sit down and try to have a conversation but the person is not interested. You pick up on the negative clues, say goodbye and walk away.

In the Asian Dating world when you send a person an email and they don’t respond, good chance they checked out your profile and for whatever reason it did not strike an emotional chord and they decided not to reply to your email. Basically you have been rejected by them not responding to your email.

Granted, there is always a chance your email got lost in internet cyberspace, so sending a second email after not getting a reply in a week seems reasonable, But if you do not get a reply to your second email, time to move on. You may also want to take this as a clue to take a look at your profile and make sure it is complete and provides enough interest for someone to respond to your emails. Think of your profile as your love resume.

I’m trying to stay gender neutral but to be honest, email rejection is more of a lady tactic than a male tactic. If for any reason, because men usually initiate the email. I’m sure you are thinking your picture was the reason for the rejection, but don’t be so quick to assume this is the case, especially when it comes to Asian ladies. Women from Asia look at male profiles more closely than your picture. They want to know if you are a man worth investing their time with, especially if the lady is getting tons of male callers and she does not have time to waste. If your profile is only a picture and a few words, she may move on thinking if you can’t take the time to fill out your profile adequately, you may not take the time to fully invest in the relationship . Besides, she probably has more than one male member emailing her so why waste her time on someone who says three words with a blurry picture.

There is always an exception to everything. I know members who did not get a response from their email until weeks later and now are happy couples. Most Asian ladies do not own a computer. They either rely on a computer at work or they go to an internet café to rent a computer. If an internet café is there only choice, they may only be able to afford to go once or twice a month. If that is the case, your email may not of been rejected, but instead time and money is keeping the lady from immediately responding.

Ladies that are overwhelmed with emails may not be rejecting you as much as finding time to respond to all her admirers. That happen to me personally. My wife would get hundreds of emails from male callers. She had a filtering system and immediately eliminated emails that were trying to buy her rather than court her. If your profile had a few words and no picture, eliminated. If your profile had a few words with a picture but did not stand out, eliminated. If your profile had many words and no picture, eliminated. If your profile was interesting, but not overwhelming, and a good clear picture she responded. Lucky me, she responded.

I know it is hard not to take rejection personally, but it is part of courting and finding the idea mate. Everyone gets rejected at one time or another, but the persistent searcher for love keeps searching for the one that is meant for them. Never give up.
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dan

  • Posted on 07/16/2009 10:24 am
Email rejection could happen for many reasons, including the fact you are not that person's cup of tea. Don't take it personally. Move on. It took me almost a year to find Eileen, but now we have a lifetime of love.